There are no contradictions.

A very good friend said that to me. And it all became suddenly clear. There are no contradictions. When you replay in your head why something went wrong or how you got to a certain place - it truly all does add up. Or I guess makes sense as to why it doesn't add up. I had been telling him about my latest love failure and as I heard myself describe the last days I realized it did all add up. There were no contradictions. It was simple. He wasn't ready. And I was.

The most ironic part is that it doesn't seem as simple when you are living it. We spend time analyzing, wondering, and feeling bad when if we really took time to think about it we would see that all the pieces were there to the puzzle. We just didn't want to put it together.


Other things I guess aren't that simple. Puzzles that still need to be solved:

• why my landlord thought that a normal sized refrigerator would fit in a closet sized kitchen
• why america's funniest home videos is still on television
• how people see through those kanye plastic glasses
• how fantasia ever won american idol
• why the show what about brian ever went off the air
• why the coffee shop at nordstroms would name their size large "enorme"
• why people who you haven't talked to you in 10 years think that they are your best friend on facebook
  

And finally...

• how there can be as many things wrong with this picture as wrinkles on hef's you know what.

There are definitely no contradictions.